Kink-identified people

Kink expresses the part of human sexuality that’s driven by the imagination, expressing fundamental parts of self. 

Eroticism

Eros is the common term for sexual imagination. Eros includes casual or occasional recreation to a core of complex identities. Eroticism is about wanting powerfully and creatively. It takes risks to explore behavior that expands or unifies mind and body. 

20+ years experience

For over 20 years, I’ve  worked with erotically diverse and sexual minority clients. Most often they see their kink as a resource, not the problem requiring therapy. Yet it’s still a road of self-discovery that can have its rites of passage.

The kink journey

They may be discovering their kink identity, or are experienced kink practitioners or educators. The journeys often heal – and become a part of adult personal development. The rewards also involve risk. 

Kink-proficient

People need kink-proficient therapists so that this key part of their identities can be accurately seen, affirmed or assisted by informed perspectives. The therapist should be able to focus on the client’s personal experience, without needing basic education about the kink itself.

Minority stress

Erotic, gender and relational freedoms come with minority stresses, especially for people of color. The sex-negative, mono-normative (puritanically-based) oppression of social, political and legal systems is connected to other forms of socio-cultural dominance.

Kink & non-monogamy

Many kinky clients also need a therapist who’s proficient in non-monogamous relationship work. There’s considerable intersection between kink and non-monogamous communities and cultures.